I want you to know that wherever you are today, a bigger life awaits you.

Here are the things I learned that may support you in "defying gravity":


1. Always dream bigger than you think you can achieve at this moment
2. See the vision of your bigger life in your mind and embrace the possibility of it happening
3. Research and study so that you gain skills in the area of your dreams
4. Ask the universe to support you beyond your wildest imaginings
5. Say "yes" when opportunities arise. You may not be great at something but the universe will give you chances to learn and grow
6. Model people who do what you want to do
7. Expect Miracles and when they come celebrate

Please affirm with me:
Today, I boldly step into the amazing adventure of my life. I defy the odds of limitation and create a life of endless and enduring possibilities.


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OK I know he's just acting...

It was driving me CRAZY when I watched the first season of Downton Abbey and met the gold-digging jerk of a Duke.  I knew his face but could not figure out from where!


Until I put on the Stardust DVD to have on in the background while applying for jobs today and it hit me... he's the sweet and lovable underdog Tristan!

I guess that means Charlie Cox is a very good actor.





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Let's face it, most movies about dancing pretty much stink. The plot is predictable, the dialogue is cheesy... 
We all know the plot. There's the misunderstood person whose passion is to dance and they struggle, struggle, till finally there's an ending breakthrough dance & they hear from a parent or authority figure, "oh I was so wrong! I see now dancing is who you are and what you have to do!" Or the protagonist has poverty or some kind of tragedy to overcome, couldn't dance & then re-discoveres it.  Get a new plot already.

Yet true dance fans endure that for those few moments of dance number bliss. I wish dance movies could be told entirely through dance, like ballets are in the theatre.

Since I enjoy all types of dancing, I used to own You Got Served & would just fast forward through the talking parts... Until I realized I was mostly just fast forwarding.

I used to be a big fan of Dirty Dancing... Until I really got into other genres of dancing & new movies emerged that fused different styles together. Suddenly Jennifer Grey's big lift at the end of the movie didn't seem like that big a deal.

I think most ladies will agree, Channing Tatum dancing is divine. But I also think this is a great dance number & sweet that he met his wife in the first Step Up movie:

Step Up 2 was pretty good... Again with the predictable plot and most definitely dialogue so cheesy you need crackers.  But there are some new faces & an enjoyable last dance number:

Step Up 3... So bad I'm not even going to share a link. I was excited when I saw the preview to see Joshua from So You Think You Can Dance was in it (most. ridiculous. scene. ever) and Twitch, who was kind of the best part of that film.

Now Step Up Revolution I thought was great; Start off with dance, put in a ton of styles, very little dialogue... We don't need the plot explained to us, just shut up & dance. Some amazing numbers in that one:
Business dance mob protest:

Dance is truly art come alive:

Pull-out-all-the-tricks huge number:

And ending on a tender romantic note:

And those aren't even all the dance numbers in that movie. Thank you!

I guess I posted this for reference to the scenes I love without having to fast forward through the rest of the movie.

I'll still enjoy the fun older pioneers from time to time, just for the memories (Footloose, Flashdance and man is Breakin entertaining)... And I'm not really talking about the fantastic Gene Kelly, Fred Astaire kinds of classics here because those are timeless & a different style I enjoy when in a certain mood.

All forms of dance impress me... It is art and poetry moving, bursting through beautiful forms in all types of ways. The genre just refects the origin & all demand stamina, passion & spirit.

At least with ballets, you can experience the whole story through dance. I dream of a movie like that using every genre possible. What bliss that would be!

With So You Think You Can Dance season 10 about to start, it will be exciting to see what new stars emerge and how much further the boundaries can be pushed.



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I really don't know the legality of writing in detail about a ticketed event at a convention... but I just had to share the fun that was Ben Browder for my fellow Farscape fans.  He is also know for Stargate (which I didn't really watch but just might now!) and was also on a recent episode of Arrow.

But my heart will always beat for John Crichton of Farscape.  Thanks to my AZ BFF Alisha, I was introduced to the most creative sci-fi show I've ever seen.  Working with the Muppet studios and fantastical make-up creations, the show TRULY felt like another universe that would be phenomenally confusing to any human.  And that is part of the humor in it for me... I don't want to spoiler anyone who plans to watch the show, but poor John is a brilliant astronaut who is accidentally sucked into another universe, fumbling his way through, perpetually confused and mocked mercilessly for it.
I'd been kind of disappointed in certain sci-fi shows in the past in that the aliens didn't look THAT alien... just slightly divergent of a human appearance.  But on Farscape, the aliens are stunningly creative, astoundingly elaborate - sometimes beautiful, sometimes horrific.  (and everything in between)  If you plan to watch this show, it's IMPERATIVE you watch from the first episode exactly in order - or you will be hopelessly lost.

Now, onto Ben's Q&A... first of all I have to thank Dakota for winning a contest and giving me a ticket to Starfest, or I wouldn't have been able to get into the events room to hear the Q & A.  SECOND of all, I thank Chris so much for not caring about Ben and giving me his VIP seat in the FIRST row, RIGHT by the microphone where fans line up to ask questions.  My heart was palpitating the whole time.  Because of that, I got to be the very first question!  I was a bit thrown off because I had a two part question, one being what it was like to work with the elaborate muppet creations.  He started off before taking questions by saying, "yes it's cool to work with puppets, yes, I enjoyed this and that..."  (I suppose he gets the puppet question a lot).
So it was my turn at the mic... I said, "well you already touched on my first question about what it was like to work with those amazing puppet creations... can you expand on that?"  And then I realized I didn't phrase it in a way that got my two questions in... His answer was, "Well, I learned that I'm really good at getting my butt kicked by puppets!"   I asked the man holding the mic if I could ask another quick question and he said no, but Ben said, "oh c'mon let her ask another one." BE STILL MY HEART!  So I asked what his favorite episode of Farscape was, and he said "the next one."  :-)  We all cheered... because much to the dismay of all, the show was canceled pre-maturely and left on a really difficult cliff-hanger.

I didn't think it was possible but I love him now more than ever.  I gotta say for a man of 51, he's still gorgeous.  And funny as all hell... but being that he's friends with Nathan Fillion, that's really no surprise now is it??   He lives in Malibu with his wife and kids (side note, his wife played a few different characters in Farscape but they were always Crichton's enemies and she was in such elaborate make up you would never recognize her.  I will leave the true fans to Google these tid-bits).
He told funny stories about his kids growing up in Australia where the show was filmed... his son being asked in kindergarten what his father did and his boy replying, "my dad is an astronaut."  The teacher, confused probed the matter further and his son kept insisting, "no he's an astronaut, I've been in his ship!"  Apparently this concerned the teacher a lot and called Ben in and he said, "yep, I'm an astronaut."  (Farscape fans gave a big laugh.)  His son also got to engage in lengthy conversations with Rygel (a muppet)... the puppeteer happy to let the conversation continue.

The backdrop for celebrities in the event room is black with lit stars, emulating space.  Ben kept looking back and acting as if he was floating.  It was pretty darn cute.

He was asked how much of himself was in the role of Crichton - and he explained that he was given a bit a free reign as far as the sci-fi pop culture references in Farscape.  I thought that was pretty cool.   Not only that, but he's a true geek... He was asked what character he would like to be in Firefly and he was stumped and eventually said, a male courtesan?  To which all the females cheered extensively.  He said he would be honored to be cast in any Joss Whedon production because he respects and likes his works immensely (another comment that got raucous cheers from the audience).  Ben was very athletic in high school, but he was also a dungeon master in D&D.  :-)  He knows all the sci-fi shows and made sure to watch all the seasons of Stargate before his role began.

He also amused and entertained everyone with tales of what it was like to film Stargate episodes in the arctic (and try to sleep in a tiny wooden shack with very large men).  I really can't quite emulate his humor in this blog post... he was always funny in his responses, not always answering the questions directly but still maintaining a respect for the fans.  I liked how the questions would lead him to humorous tangents about different filming experiences and how much credit he would give his fellow actors in making him look better.

All in all... it was a frelling fantastic two hours!!!




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Isn't it amazing how much of our lives we spend 

seeking and demanding to be right? We can be 

right or we can be happy.

 

- Dr. Roger W. Teel

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Consider this: Whatever we say about anybody else contains at its core an affirmation about ourselves.

 

- Dr. Roger W. Teel

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"This most basic question, who am I, is the one that is most overlooked. We spend most of our days telling ourselves or the other we're someone important, someone unimportant, someone big, someone little, someone young, someone old. Never truly questioning its most basic assumption. Who are you, really? How do you know that is who you truly are? Is that true, really? 

When you turn your attention to your question, who am I, perhaps you'll see an entity that has your face and your body. But, who is aware of that entity? Are you the object, or the awareness of the object? The object comes and goes. The parent, the child, the lover, the abandoned one, the enlightened one, the victorious one, the defeated one, these identifications all come and go. The awareness of these identifications is always present. 

The misidentification of yourself as an object or awareness leads to extreme pleasure or extreme pain, and endless cycle of suffering. When you are willing to stop the misidentification and discover directly and completely that you are the awareness itself and not these impermanent definitions, the search for yourself and thoughts ends. When the question "Who" is followed innocently, purely, all the way back to its source, there is a huge astounding realization. There is no entity there at all. There is only the undefinable, boundless recognition of yourself as inseparable from anything else. You are free, you are whole, you are endless. . . Ganjali
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"Everyone wants to be happy but what makes for lasting happiness? Interestingly, research is now validating ancient wisdom in many ways. Money, for example, is surprisingly ineffective-- it can alleviate the suffering of deprivation, but above a certain minimum does precious little to increase lasting happiness.

So what does work? Many things will bump up happiness temporarily, but long term is a very different matter. Researchers have found three thing that succeed in doing this. What are they?

1) Cultivating gratitude, and particularly effective is writing down something each day for which you feel grateful.

2) Reframing difficult experiences in a positive way. This, of course, is the old practice of looking for the silver lining.

3) Generosity. The old wisdom is true--in giving to others we give to ourselves, and the happy result is what's called a "helper's high.

May you be happy!"  -Roger Walsh


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Sent from a co-worker... enjoy :)


Why did the Cyclops have to close his school?
Because he only had one pupil.


Why don't angry witches ride their brooms?
They're afraid of flying off the handle
 
What do skeletons say before they begin dining?
Bone appetit !

Do zombies eat popcorn with their fingers?
No they eat them separately.

What is a vampire's favorite coffee?
De-coffinated

Who did Frankenstein take to the prom?
His ghoul friend

What do witches put on their hair?
Scare spray

What kind of mistakes do spooks make?
Boo boos

How do you mend a broken Jack-o-lantern?
With a pumpkin patch

When does a skeleton laugh?
When something tickles his funny bone

Why was the mummy so tense?
He was all wound up

What does a skeleton order at a restaurant?
Spare ribs

Who did the ghost invite to his party?
Anyone he could dig up!

What is a monster's favorite food?
Ghoul scout cookies

What did the skeleton say while riding his Harley Davidson motorcycle?
I'm bone to be wild!

What's a vampire's favorite fruit?
A nectarine

What do you call a ghost with a broken leg?
Hoblin Goblin

What do you call a witch who lives at the beach?
A sand-witch
 
What is a Mummie's favorite type of music?
Wrap!

What do you call a goblin who gets too close to a bonfire?
A toasty ghosty. 

What is the worst thing about twin witches?
You can't tell which is witch.

What do mommy ghosts tell their kids when they get in the car?
Bookle up your sheetbelts!

Why wasn't there any food left after the monster party?
Because everyone was a goblin!


Why is it hard for a ghost to tell a lie?
Because you can see right through him.


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I have to make a formal apology to Google+.  In the previous blog post, I stated my opinion that, other than the "hangouts," Google+ seemed like little more than a simplified Facebook page.

But then this morning, I was curious to know the origins of Labor Day, typed "Labor Day" in the search box and I discovered an article by a dear friend regarding Labor Day getaways and it was the 3rd search result... simply and only because she shared it on Google+.

I don't know about you but that motivates me quite a bit more to utilize Google's social media tool. If you use blogger, it automatically prompts you to share with your circles.  It's nice not to have to set that up in your blog functionality and just have it "happen."




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I am trying to make the transition from web designer to more of a marketing / social media role because that has been my passion for a while.  So naturally I use as many social media tools as possible, evaluating their end result and ways to fully utilize them.

Obviously Facebook and Twitter were a given in their massive popularity and YouTube began as a fun experiment for this singin dancin fool.

Then I really wanted to blog about important and fun issues to me but find there's rarely time to spend the quality time I want on it.  I tried to keep regular posts going for a while but now I'm lucky if I post every month or so.

Now there's Pinterest, which seems to be spreading like wildfire - and I enjoy it because I am such a visual person.

Of course I'm an avid, daily user of LinkedIn for the purpose of networking in the job arena and finding that right place of employment.

Then we have Google+ which you can't really ignore since, well it's Google.  I don't use that account too much but what it does seem to have going for it are the "hangouts."  Otherwise it just seems like another Facebook page to me.

And of course I'm on Yelp, Foursquare, Delicious (remember them?) and others I probably have forgotten about.

Now for someone who loves staying on top of technology trends, particularly social media, it's crucial to have a solid understanding of all the biggest and best.  However these change every single day... old platforms die out (Friendster, Tribe, MySpace, just to name a few) and new ones born constantly in the hope of being the next big thing.

Notice how I didn't mention Yahoo yet?  I have a yahoo address and hotmail - just in case they get better.  But I've always thought they were too heavy with advertising and too light on convenient features.

I could literally spend all day researching which company bought what platform, the stats of the current "biggest thing" and by tomorrow it could be totally different.

So my question is, how many social media tools can one person really take advantage of?
What are the tools you could never do without?
What's a time-suck and what's beneficial to your time?

These are somewhat hypothetical - but please weigh in with your opinions if you have them!

Social media isn't going anywhere and I aim to be in-the-know.  Hopefully without losing my mind.  :-)


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