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I need to get this cemented into my noggin!

" It is NOT important to me what you think about me, and i don't take what you think personally.... I dont have the need to be accepted. I dont have the need to have someone tell me, " Miguel you are GREAT"... What ever YOU think, whatever YOU feel is YOUR problem not MY problem. " "PERSONAL IMPORTANCE or taking things personally, is an expression of SELFISHNESS because we make the assumption that everything is about ME!! NOTHING PEOPLE DO IS BECAUSE OF YOU!! IT'S BECAUSE OF THEMSELVES!!"
Don Miguel Ruiz

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  1. AlishaJune 4, 2013 at 12:55 PM

    It's a difficult lesson, but one worth learning. I'm sorry you haven't heard from me, every time I try to respond to your emails, google sends it someplace stupid. Do you have plans for your birthday?

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